7 Ways to Stop Being a Lukewarm Christian

Have you ever felt like your relationship with God has become… routine? Maybe you go to church, pray sometimes, and still believe - but deep down, something feels off. If so, you’re not alone. Many believers go through seasons where their faith grows cold or passive.

The Bible describes this spiritual state as being a lukewarm Christian - someone who is not fully committed or passionate about God. But the good news? You don’t have to stay there. You can reignite your relationship with Jesus and live a life that’s full of purpose, joy, and spiritual fire.

In this post, we’ll look at what it means to be lukewarm and share practical, biblical ways to get back on fire for God.

What Is a Lukewarm Christian?

The term “lukewarm” comes from Revelation 3:15-16, where Jesus speaks to the church in Laodicea:

“I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other! So, because you are lukewarm - neither hot nor cold - I am about to spit you out of my mouth.” - Revelation 3:15-16 (NIV)

That’s strong language! Jesus is not looking for half-hearted faith. He wants a personal, passionate relationship with us - not one where we just go through the motions.

Lukewarm Christians may:

  • Go to church but not truly worship

  • Believe in God but not follow Him closely

  • Pray occasionally but not seek Him daily

  • Blend in with the world rather than stand out for Christ

If that hits close to home, don’t feel discouraged - feel invited. Jesus is calling you into something deeper and better.

7 Ways to Stop Being a Lukewarm Christian

Here are practical steps to help you grow in your faith, deepen your relationship with God, and live boldly as a follower of Christ.

1. Get Honest with God

The first step to change is honesty. Admit where you are spiritually. Tell God if you’ve been distracted, distant, or lukewarm. He’s not here to shame you - He wants to help you grow.

Prayer idea:
“Lord, I don’t want to live a half-hearted faith. Help me to know You more and love You fully.”

2. Return to Your First Love

Do you remember the passion you had when you first gave your life to Jesus? The excitement, the joy, the hunger for His Word? Ask God to renew that fire in your heart.

“You have forsaken the love you had at first. Consider how far you have fallen! Repent and do the things you did at first.” – Revelation 2:4-5

Start with simple steps: read your Bible daily, worship intentionally, and spend time talking to God.

3. Spend Time in God’s Word Daily

God’s Word is alive and powerful. If you feel distant from God, the Bible is where you'll find His voice, His truth, and His promises. Even just 10–15 minutes a day can change your heart and mindset. Start with the Book of John or Psalms for daily encouragement and connection.

4. Pray with Purpose

Prayer is more than asking for things—it’s building a relationship with God. Talk to Him like a friend. Be honest. Be thankful. Be open.

You don’t need perfect words. Just speak from your heart, and listen for His voice.

5. Get Plugged into a God-Centered Community

Surrounding yourself with other believers can reignite your faith. Join a small group, attend a Bible study, or serve at your church. Community keeps you accountable, encouraged, and growing.

“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” – Proverbs 27:17

6. Say No to Spiritual Compromise

Sometimes we grow lukewarm because we’re living in two worlds—trying to follow God but also trying to please the world. Choose holiness. Ask God to help you break habits, relationships, or influences that pull you away from Him.

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” – Romans 12:2

7. Live Boldly for Jesus

Don’t be afraid to share your faith, serve others, and live differently. Lukewarm faith is often quiet and comfortable. But on-fire faith is visible, active, and full of love.

Even small steps—like praying for someone, sharing your story, or giving generously—can reignite your passion for God.

God Wants Your Whole Heart

Being a lukewarm Christian isn’t a permanent condition. You can change. God is always ready to meet you, renew your spirit, and lead you into a deeper walk with Him.

Don’t settle for a “just enough” kind of faith. You were made for more.

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” – Matthew 22:37


 
 
Maggie

I’m Maggie - christian planner designer, blogger and coffee lover. I love the peaceful feeling of a cozy drink in the morning, with my Bible in hand and quiet time to reflect.

My heart is to help women grow in their faith and live a more intentional, Christ-centered life. Here, you'll find Christian planners, guided journals, and spiritual resources designed to inspire your walk with God and simplify your daily life.

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